I didn't want to have to start Christmas like this, but I felt the need to say something...

It irks me to know that there are people out there who judge people by the mistakes one makes. Obviously everyone has flaws, but the fact that someone else picks at them, makes a person feel insecure. People often agree on what they have seen about someone while never really getting to know the person. Mindless sheep...they can't even think for themselves so they speak and think for others.

People can be so narrow-minded when it comes to viewing people. It's even worse when one thinks he/she has the right to tag others with inapproriate terms merely because they heard it from a not-so-dependable source. Judging people has nothing to do with maturity. It's all about selfishness. It's selfish to assume that someone is subordinate to yourself...the only reason one would think so lowly of another is boost their already failing ego. People can be so consumed in other people's business and really forgets who they are.

I know better than to pick the wounds and flaws of others...It's difficult enough for me to face my own flaws. I have no right to meddle in someone else's life in that manner. No one does. Why not accept the fact that people make mistakes and they can hurt people too?

Everyone makes mistakes. Most mistakes have to occur multiple times just so one can learn from it.

Don't tell her to open her eyes...close yours and reflect on yourself first. Not being able to recognize & embrace their own flaws is the biggest imperfection one can have.