It's funny when you know when you're on a point and someone can't handle the fact they have been contradicted. In poker, we call this a "tilt." Well, a version of it anyway. Since you didn't give me the last word... in defense of my good friend:

I agree with the no fingers being pointed, but im not trying to protect his ego. I know he's a secure enough of a person who can stand by his decisions. I dont think that it's a fair assessment to say that he doesnt know who he is. Maybe he found out exactly who he is and that pushed him to do what he decided to do. We can't conclude that he doesnt know who he is. I dont know whats in his head and neither do you. I don't know his reasons for his actions but I'm just defending his character and his ability to make his decision. I'm not against you. I have no reason to be. It's just that he is my friend and I only think it's right to disagree on a comment that you have. I may not know exactly what happened, but I'm not really that stupid either. I've known him much longer than you have.

Hypocrites? Everyone is a hypocrite. It's human nature to contradict ourselves from time to time. I don't think that would justify his actions.

I understand that you're sad. I understand that you're upset and that your perspective on things may be tainted. Look at both sides...after all, you said it was a mutual thing.