I felt a myriad of emotions these past couple of days. I was asked to be a pallbearer for Lolo Ben last Wednesday. As we walked out of St. Augustine's after mass, just seeing the faces of everyone in the pews was so overwhelming. I would always see those faces full of life. I had a hard time seeing everyone so sad...even my parents. Hearing Lola and my aunties cry as I carried the casket was overwhelming. Seeing my cousins weeping was a sight I hope to never get used to. I was honored to carry him to his final resting place.

I learned a lot about Lolo Ben. I learned that he was a trailblazer. I learned that if it weren't for Filipinos like him, I wouldn't have the opportunities I have today. He was a tough man with a heart of gold. You know, he's the link between my family and my family up north.

Thanks Lolo Ben.