When people come in your your life, it's usually for a reason and with purpose. Through my rough times I yearned for change. My self proclaimed quarter-life-crisis has offered me opportunities to change... and sadly, not all changes were positive. I suffered for the improvement of my sense of self and my personal independence.
You, a complete stranger, came into my life as a stylist. Now, to most, that role in one's life may not be as significant as the surface reflects. However, after you cut my hair for the first time in November, you helped me feel positive about myself again. I hadn't felt anything positive going on until I proactively took steps to improve, and you were one of my first steps: physical change must lead to mental change. I had been so hard on myself before I sat in your chair. My self-esteem finally got that boost I unknowingly sought after. I was empowered.
At that moment, I've decided that I REALLY am able to grow as a person without craving the needless validation of others. I know it seems crazy that something as simple as a haircut could severely skew a point of view. I know you were just doing your job... and it was your effervescence & personality that allowed you to connect with me on a personal, "wienery" level... and for that I am grateful.
I recognize that you and your services weren't the only catalyst to my personal exploration... However, if I learned anything in life, it's to recognize and thank those you strongly believe deserve to hear it. I'm the kind of guy who often gets overlooked and holds his own behind the scenes without question or need for recognition. I understand the value and power of gratitude.
So I guess what I'm trying to say is, "thanks." Thanks for allowing me to feel good about myself when I forgot how to. Thanks for seeing who I really am as a person and not just so much as a customer. Thanks for knowing what to do with not only my hair, but my personality... and thank you for just being you and sharing your talents that allow me to be better.
Maybe I dare to straddle the line between client and friend, but I feel that, at the very least, I must express my gratitude. Your talent has more power than you realize.
Here's to more empowering visits to come...
-Mark